Muslim scholars have a real answer here. Say so before your friend does.
Quran 4:171 calls Jesus "the Messenger of Allah and His Word (kalimatuhu) which He cast to Mary, and a Spirit from Him (ruhun minhu)." No other figure in the Quran gets these titles. Not even Muhammad.
Sahih al-Bukhari 3286 says every newborn is touched by Satan. It names two exceptions: Mary and her son.
Add the rest — sinless, virgin-born, alive in heaven, returning at the end. The picture keeps rising above prophet-rank.
The whole purpose of 4:171 is to deny that Jesus is divine. It ends: the Messiah is only a messenger, so do not say Three.
Yet it uses the vocabulary of John 1, where the Word became flesh.
This comes from the tafsir tradition itself. Ibn Kathir, Jalalayn and Maududi all explain it.
His Word means Jesus was created by the word kun, Be. Quran 3:59 says exactly that and levels him with Adam.
A spirit from Him uses min, which marks origin, not shared being. Quran 45:13 says everything is from Him.
So the titles are honours inside the verse's own ceiling.
Genuinely arguable, and better as a question than a claim. Everything is created by Be (Quran 2:117).
Only Jesus is called His Word. There is no formal contradiction here.
There is a real tension, and it is worth asking about.
"Everything was made by God saying Be. Why is only Jesus called God's Word?"



They say Word means Jesus was made by the command Be, as Adam was.
The strongest reply comes from the tafsir tradition itself, in Ibn Kathir, Jalalayn and Maududi. His Word means that Jesus was created by Allah's word Be, kun. Quran 3:59 says so plainly, and levels him with Adam, who had neither father nor mother. A birth by miracle proves he is a creature, not God.
A spirit from Him uses the small word min, from, which marks origin rather than shared being. Quran 45:13 uses 'from Him' of everything there is. The titles sit under the verse's own stated ceiling: the Messiah is only a messenger, so do not say Three. On this reading the verse borrows Christian words precisely in order to deflate them.
Both sides have a case: ask it as a question, not as a claim.
The Muslim reading holds together, and Quran 3:59 supplies the Quran's own gloss. But it under-explains the data. Everything is created by Be (2:117), yet only Jesus is called His Word.
The Adam parallel also cuts against the no-consort argument of 6:101. A fatherless birth by miracle is apparently fine when Allah wills it. And the whole profile is one the Quran never paints of Muhammad.
What the Quran inherits here is the vocabulary of John's Gospel, the Logos, stripped of the theology that produced it. That is what borrowing from a Christian setting without its doctrinal grammar looks like. There is no formal contradiction. There is a standing tension, settled only by saying so.